i did 6 months for a gun charge and when i came home {NY} I had sex with my wife of course and right after i broke out. I paid no attention to it but when it wouldn't leave I got tested and I was negative for HIV and etc. but positive for HSV 2. I cried a lil and argued with my wife who swears she didnt cheat on me. he octor at the clinic told me it dosn't mean she cheated on me since Herpes can hav no symptoms for years, in my mind I know my wife gave it to me. Im looking for a female who can be my friend and hopefully we can give support to each other. Hopefully in the Ny Area. Thanks and please no negativity. honesty shouldnt be attacked.

I've had have had herpes for 30 years so I know a few things. From now on you will have to tell anyone you are going to have sex with about your condition. Even when a lesion is not present it is possible to infect you partner. Using condoms (rubbers), helps reduce the risk of spreading the virus, but is not a complete guarantee. Finally, your wife did cheat on you. I recommend talking to her and trying to get her to be honest with you. The biggest problem in your marriage right now is not her infidelity, but her lying. Good luck