For those that have genital herpes.. preferrably a female.. have you been sleeping with a guy who isn't infected and have been using just a condom and not using a daily medication like valtrex?.. if you have never transmitted it to ur partner how long have yall been together?? r u ever self conscious about spreading it..

Me? Never.
A good friend of mine got herpes the FIRST time he had sex. It was with a girl he was working with at the fast food restaurant. He was 16.
He's still got it - he's 50!